In today’s world, it has become cool to have been around in multiple relationships. Often times people are made fun of for being single and not having a relationship. Somehow, a lot of people tend to place their self worth on their ability to attract partners.
The harsh truth about people who cheat on their partners or those who hook up with multiple people is that they are seeking to fulfill a void in their own ego. They are seeking validation from external people instead of being reliant on themselves.
What happens is that when we seek external validation, no amount of it is ever enough to satisfy one’s ego. Such people will never feel good enough and will always crave for more. Thus, no matter how many partners these people have, they will never feel good enough.
People who are truly confident and worthy are those that don’t rely on external circumstances for feeling good about themselves. We are truly in our power when we realize that we are worthy regardless of how other people behave with us, whether they like us or not or whether they think we are capable or not.
It is important to know that we must hold our opinion of ourselves over everyone else. It is important to take constructive feedback but not let other people define what our worth is.
Anyway, that was my opinion. Let me know yours in the comments.
